Back to that Thursday. Deep inside, I had a feeling that I was dealing with a malpositioned baby and my intuition was telling me that I needed some rebozo work done. But Nathan worked a long day at work and I didn’t quite reach out to anyone for help. That’s on me… asking for help is hard and I didn’t want to bother anyone.
Evening came though and the contractions finally started to come closer together, intense but a wonky pattern. We put the kids to bed, turned on a movie and I was just sitting, trying to time them. The feeling was so intense. The little head was rubbing so strongly on my insides. At one point I got up to go downstairs to use the bathroom. I couldn’t even walk. I was literally hanging on Nathan. Then I couldn’t get up from the toiled. I felt like my pelvis and cervix were being drilled and sawed apart.
I typed a long text to my midwife, trying to explain what’s going on and I hesitated to send it, not wanting to alarm her if this will turn into nothing again, or my pride came in, I didn’t want to sound like an idiot, not knowing what’s going on… like, c’mon. I’m a freaking birth worker. I’ve birthed babies like a pro…. Once again, I felt humbled. I was a mess… hanging onto Nathan, not able to stand or do anything. He decided to call the midwife. While I was still saying that I don’t know if this is ‘IT’ and I would absolutely hate her to drive up from Anchorage if this turned into nothing, or if it was gonna take forever. The previous weeks made it hard to trust my body. Bethel said she’d be on the way shortly, though. With the next contractions I uttered for Nathan to ‘call the ladies’ – the rest of my birth team.
They got to my house quite quickly.
We got the pool going and I hopped in. I felt immediate relief, which made me doubt my labor and worry that it would now stop. That relief didn’t last long though. Soon enough, I felt my pelvis being shred apart again.